The state of Punjab, where Sikhism is the predominant faith, is home to the bulk of the Punjabi population. Punjabis are recognized for being extremely hard workers who place a high emphasis on their families. They are also devoted to their elders, siblings, and parents. Punjabi tradition and history are deeply ingrained in their society. They are regarded as India's most orderly community as well.

A vital aspect of life is locating a life partner. Life can be blissful with the perfect spouse, but it can also be miserable or at least a constant battle with the wrong one. Therefore, it is crucial to pay close attention to the steps that young people should take to discover their spouses. Additionally, it is frowned upon in Punjabi society to speak of or debate this procedure. The biggest obstacles in this process are preoccupations with what will people think and an incorrect emphasis on family honor. The goal of this paper is to remove these obstacles and offer a framework for a defensible discussion on the issue.

Youth are exposed to cultures and traditions significantly more than their parents were able to because of the quick advancements in technology, education, and globalization. The approaches used by earlier generations don't seem to offer the proper solutions for choosing a life mate in the current scenario, which frequently leads to conflict and uncertainty in the family.

The ideal life partners their partner's needs ahead of their own. They are cordial with one another and supportive of one another's broad life goals. They regard one another's needs, wants, and feelings with the same consideration as their own. Ideal couples treat one another with respect and consideration. They don't try to control one another by using threats or using other coercive methods. They respect each other's boundaries while still staying close physically and emotionally. By valuing and respecting our spouses' independent opinions and refraining from trying to change them, we can learn to know them as unique people.

The following characteristics should be present in a potential life mate for young people:

• Sincere: Dependable and responsible individual
• Kirti: Must be able to work and ethically provide for the family.
• Nirbhau: Positive self-image. Ability to advocate for the proper cause or problem
• Nirvair: Not retaliatory. should not inflict pain by words or deeds
• Mental Wellness: Life presents many difficulties brought on by lust, fury, greed, infatuation, and vanity. The individual must possess the moral fortitude to handle these difficulties and restrain these vices.
• Self-Motivated: The individual should be motivated by his or her own desires to complete their social and familial responsibilities.
• Belief: The individual must have unwavering confidence in Waheguru and the power of Ardas.

Although it may be challenging to locate such a perfect Sikh match from USA, it provides us with a list of qualities to consider. The marriage may be in jeopardy if the person has major weaknesses in any of these qualities.

To evaluate these values in the partner, the young person may require assistance from or interaction with parents and friends. The left brain should rule and emotions should be kept under check. These principles form the basis of a connection.

The primary responsibility of parents is to instill these ideals in their children. They ought to serve as examples for others. When children become young adults, they should continue having open lines of contact with them about these matters. They must avoid seeming judgmental because doing so will make kids reluctant to talk to them about these issues.